Two Things for People That Want Three

Hair: Here's what I find odd. Everyone always talks about how, as you get older, you begin to lose your hair. Presumably from all parts of your body (this is true right? I think I zoned out during this part of biology class, big surprise). But what no one really addresses, which seems to be happening across the board is that, from your teenage years to presumably your 40's, you accquire hair. Everywhere. It's like your body is trying to build a nice winter coat incase you ever decide to go live with the polar bears. It's not just something that happens when you're in middle school (and for some of us much later) and boys and girls get grown up hair. It seems that as we get older, girls' bikini lines drop further down their thighs, and boys' beards slip further down their necks (and backs, but I can't go there, sorry hairy dudes). What is this mostrosity? Why does it happen? Girls say "Well, you know, the more you wax, the more grows back" and boys say "Yeah, I have a beard down to my nipples because my hair grows funny". But I don't think that's true. I think something is happening here. And while I understand that we are living in a culture that is obsessed with selective hairlessness (internet porn community, I'm looking at you) I can't find the will to rage against it. Yes, hairiness is alright and all, but the unexplainable she-staches and male shoulder hair have got to be explained somehow. Hormones, ok. Sure. But hormones, riddle me this: why can't you just stretch yourselves out over a lifetime, instead of trying to cram everything in to a couple of decades? Women who once had to wear surf shorts to the beach will one day be patchy and bald, and that will be confusing for them. No one wants to take a bald lady on a classy date. So let's start talking about this. I mean, let's put this issue out there on the table; get the dialogue going. Am I alone on this or not? And surely, if I am, now I just sound like a pervert.

Memory Beer: Don't buy memory beer. I tried to today. In my defense I have only slept about five hours in the past two days, and been working consistently, so perhaps my judgement is skewed. But instead of taking a nap this evening (those "naps" only turn into sleepless nights later) I walked myself down to my corner market to buy a snack and an evening drink. I thought it would be such a nice thing to sit at home alone for a while and drink a cold beer and browse my ever-slowing stolen internet. Good idea, right. So as I am scanning the cases of beer in the bodega where I also buy tea and cigarettes and razors and talk with my friend the counter guy who for some reason lives in Bay Ridge, my indecisiveness kicks in, and like always, I can't choose. So, just like someone comes across an old vinyl they bought when they were 14, or a t-shirt with a No Fear phrase on it, I found at the bottom of a case, a six pack of Elephant Beer. Elephant beer! How amazing! There you are! The sight of that stoic elephant with his giant ears parading proudly across the green bottle immediately made me think of my step-father, and how he used to smoke his tobacco from pipes, and listen to old Italian Polka records, and talk to the seagulls, and pet the dogs while trying to teach me about the mold that grows on french cheeses. He drank this beer. It is familiar and comforting just by association. It's like drinking Frank Sinatra's favorite drink because you know he was a classy man. My step-father most certainly is. So I picked up the beer and a lonely can of soup and came home. I'm not gonna lie, I was excited to drink it. As I get older I find myself revelling in doing the things that my parents enjoyed, and finally understanding why. But the moral of buying Memory beer, and why you shouldn't do it (if you're me I guess), is that once I was home I victoriously pulled a bottle from the cardboard satchel, excited to read the label that this great man must have read so many times, only to discover that I had just bought a bunch of malt liquor. What? Malt. Liquor. Sure, it's "imported from Copenhagen", but what are the Danish doing making malt liquor in the first place? Aren't they above that? I mean it's malt liquor for chrissake--the stuff you drink when you're too young or drunk to care. Stoic elephant or no, it's not even real beer. And I don't know if there is some kind of legitimate elephant beer out there that I just didn't find, but I will tell you that this cannot be the beer that my step-father drank. The man who fights with swords and plays the accordion. Classy people don't buy malt liquor. That's like saying that tap dancers also masturbate to the Wall Street Journal. It just doesn't happen. So while I might be drinking this "beer" anyway, and wondering why, I still don't reccomend that anyone haplessly walk through a bodega and snatch up the first drink that sparks their happy memories. Because obviously you wind up with something that is grain and water, and too boozy to be sold in bars.

So I have started to build an intricate web of lies, which will hopefully lead to making money and doing a thing I might be good at. But the lies make me nervous and sweaty. There's a rooftop party somewhere close by and I want to see it, there's a window and I want to open it, there's a hand and I want to shake it--or talk to it and see how much I want to shake it. There's a lot of sleep I want to have without sleeping.